Dr. Rajesh Bhola
India
Mar 14, 2014
India
Mar 14, 2014
It
wasn’t as though I had many friends at school in Chandigarh. It was a
lonely affair for a thirteen-year-old. I was in need of a friend but it
was not easy to find one among a horde of rowdy, pea-shooting
classmates, who carved their names on desks and stuck chewing gum on the
class teacher’s chair. The moment there was no teacher in the classroom
it used to be a free for all – with some shouting at each other and
many others beating their desks. It was schoolboy anarchy at its ‘best’.
But, now when the memories of schooldays flood back, I realise that if
our inborn nature of raw desires goes unchecked, there will be little
pattern or order in our lives. For attaining such behaviour and for the
restoration of some order, there has been the civilizing influence of
teachers – who also provided guidance on propriety and righteousness.
Someone may well ask, “If a person’s nature is ‘evil’, wherefrom would
such ‘manners’ come?” The answer is that these are not produced from
man’s nature. When a potter pounds the clay and makes a vessel, it is
the product of the artisan’s activity, not of his nature. The sages
observed activities and gathered ideas and thoughts, and thereafter
introduced principles of propriety and righteousness and instituted laws
and systems. Therefore these are the products of the activity of the
sages and not the original products of every man’s nature. The eye, ear,
nose, mouth, heart and body are products of man’s original nature and
feelings. They react to natural stimuli, which does not require any
activity. The sages transformed man’s nature and aroused him to
activity.
It
is difficult to comprehend the extent of the gap between our present
selves and our original nature, and how this gap can be closed. Due to
this great chasm we are eternally continuing with our incomplete and
unhappy lives. Man’s original nature enjoys each breath, delights in the
subtlest pleasures of life and regales living close to the lap of
Nature. Human nature, at its core, is like Nature around us; it is one of its more complex formations.
The apostles and soldiers of the ideal, in whom service for truth and
justice has become the law of life, need not despair of human nature,
nor pray for a miracle to purge man of his baser elements. The sages’
lives are proof that human nature can change itself for the better; that
the human species can teach itself to live by truth alone and to act
for the good of all men. This spiritual side to human nature sees
human life in terms of the bigger picture – of how to inject new meaning
into a person’s little story, so that it begins to serve the great
story of peace and compassion in the world.
The
original nature of humans is constantly developing, growing and moving
toward a balanced and mature way of ‘being’. Our present personality is
determined by both who and what we have been and by the persons we
strive to become. The goal of personal development is to learn and apply
that which enables us to attain emotional wellbeing, understanding and
effectiveness, and to share this knowledge with others. Personal development is the conscious evolution of human nature. Although
it is in our nature to learn and grow, we are held back by our
‘culture’, which is predominantly focused on survival needs. Each of us
is in competition with others, and our spiritual inner nature is
repressed. The animal in us rules. We make no room for unconditional
love. Even though the culture may have ‘evolved’, with technological
advancements and administrative complexity, human nature has not moved
forward as it might. We are now paying the price for human selfishness
and inconsideration. Going forward, the quality of our lives on this
Planet - even our survival - now depends on each of us taking
responsibility for our own personal growth. The human being needs to
awaken to the soul that inhabits each body, and which is our true self
and source of inner knowing. Let us awaken through a process of self-
discovery, leading to our own, self-directed spirituality. We need to
become mindfully conscious, instead of being ruled by the dictates of
basic instincts, past habits and fixed beliefs. We need to throw away
dogma, open our minds and ‘reconsider’. Instead of fearing about our
survival and developing a competitive angst, we will then be motivated
by compassionate understanding and creative love.
Dr.
Rajesh Bhola is President of Spastic Society of Gurgaon and is working
for the cause of children with autism, cerebral palsy, mental
retardation and multiple disabilities for more than 25 years. He can be
contacted at rabhola@yahoo.com
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